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Every fall, parishes hand out time and talent surveys. Every winter, most of those cards sit in a box in the parish office. Here's why that keeps happening — and the gift-based approach that changes it.
If you've run a stewardship drive, you know the cycle. The cards go out on commitment Sunday. A fraction come back. Someone types the checkmarks into a spreadsheet. A few ministry leaders get lists of names, a few calls get made — and by Advent, the whole effort has faded until next year.
The problem usually isn't effort or follow-through. It's what the survey asks. A typical time and talent card is a list of tasks: lector, usher, funeral luncheon, money counter. It asks parishioners which jobs they'd tolerate — and most people, looking at a list of jobs, honestly answer "none." The card never asks the question generosity starts with: what has God made you good at?
There's a second problem: even when someone checks a box, they've told you about their availability, not their gifts. A parishioner who checks "usher" because it seemed manageable may serve for a year and drift away — while her gift for teaching sits unused because "catechist" felt too bold to check.
The Church gives us a better starting point. The Catechism teaches that every baptized person has received charisms — spiritual gifts given "for the good of men and the needs of the world" (CCC 799). Not the involved 20% of your parish. Everyone in the pews on Sunday.
A gift-based approach flips the survey's logic:
Parishes that make this flip report a different kind of volunteer: matched to work that fits their gifts, they stay longer, serve more joyfully, and recruit others.
A survey can still be a useful tool — as the second step, after gift discovery. If you're revising yours this year, structure it in this order:
And one commitment before you print anything: every returned card gets a personal response within two weeks. A survey that disappears into the office teaches your parish that responding is pointless — and that lesson outlasts any single stewardship season.
Open-ended questions help, but they still depend on parishioners already knowing their gifts — and most don't. That's the gap our work fills.
Stewardship Renewal gives every parishioner access to an online charism assessment (about 20 minutes, instant personalized results identifying their most likely spiritual gifts), and gives your leadership an Assessment Results Dashboard showing the gifts across your whole parish. Instead of a box of cards, your ministry leaders get something no survey has ever produced: a real picture of what God has given your community — and named, specific reasons to invite each person into ministry that fits.
It runs alongside your existing stewardship season, and it's how the time and talent conversation becomes a discipleship conversation.
Your parishioners have gifts they've never put names to. Give them a way to discover them — and watch what happens to your ministry rosters.
Most parishes run stewardship renewals in the fall — September through November — when parish life restarts after summer. Whatever you choose, plan the follow-up before you print the cards: who calls, by when, and who tracks it.
Paper surveys at Mass typically see a minority of households respond, and only a fraction of those follow through into ministry. That's exactly why we recommend leading with gift discovery — people respond very differently to "find out what God has given you" than to a task checklist.
A charism is a spiritual gift — a grace of the Holy Spirit given to every baptized person for the good of others (Catechism, 799–801). Your parishioners don't need the vocabulary to start; the assessment explains everything in plain language. Most people find that discovering their gifts is what makes the word stick.
You can, but you probably won't need to. At the end of the charism assessment, you can customize a survey specific to your parish, keeping everything in one place and making it easier than ever for you to view and act on the results of your parishioners.